Forget anti-wrinkle creams, research claims SEX can make you look seven years younger - but that's not the only benefit
Partner “not in the mood” again? Then it might be worth sharing the following to change their mind!
According
to the latest studies, regular sex – that’s one to two lovemaking
sessions per week – can provide some incredible boosts to your health
and wellbeing.
1. Look younger
Last
week, Dr David Weeks, clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh
Hospital, revealed to a psychology conference that his extensive
research had found older men and women with an active love life looked
five to seven years younger than their actual age.
But you don’t
have to be at it every night to enjoy youth-enhancing effects! In fact,
during his 10-year study, Weeks found quality was as important as
quantity, with the anti-ageing benefits stronger if the sex was classed
as “loving”.
2. Boost your fertility
This
will sound like music to most men’s ears – studies have found that the
more often you make love, the better quality your sperm will be.
Semen
health was found to be best when sex had last occurred less than two
days before the sperm was tested and was greatly decreased after 10 days
of abstinence.
If you’re trying for a baby, keep sperm fresh and
in tip-top shape by having sex at least twice a week, and not only
around the time of the woman’s ovulation.
Frequent sex has also
been found to help balance a woman’s hormones and regulate her periods,
which can further boost chances of conceiving.
3. Fight colds and flu
Having
sex once or twice a week has been found to raise your body’s levels of
an antibody called immunoglobulin A, or IgA, which can protect you from
colds and flu. One study found people who have sex more than once a week
have 30% higher levels of IgA than those who abstain.
4. Disease-proof your body
Having
high levels of the natural steroid DHEA, known as “the anti-ageing
hormone”, is believed to be key to keeping your body fitter for longer.
During sex, DHEA is secreted throughout the body, and after an orgasm,
the level in the bloodstream soars to five times its normal amount.
5. Lengthen your life
A
study carried out in Australia found people who climaxed at least three
times a week had a 50% lower chance of dying for any medical reason
than those who only climaxed once a month.
6. Shift your middle-age spread and keep fit
Thirty minutes of vigorous sex burns up to 100 calories, which is the same as a small glass of wine.
And if you have moderately active sex twice a week, you’ll burn an extra 5,000 calories a year!
Varying your positions is also a great, fun way to tone different muscle groups and keep limbs lean and flexible.
7. Ease those nasty period cramps
Many women say period pain diminishes if they do the deed during a cramp attack.
One
theory why is that muscle contractions that occur when you reach peak
levels of excitement relieve tension in the muscles of your uterus – the
ones that cause menstrual cramps – therefore easing the pain.
8. Helps lower your risk of incontinence
Good
sex is a great workout for a woman’s pelvic floor muscles – the muscles
that control orgasms and also stem the flow of urine, reducing leakage
and incontinence.
Pregnancy and the menopause can weaken these
muscles significantly, but the stronger they are, the lower your risk of
developing stress incontinence and prolapse later.
And let’s face it, sex is far more enjoyable than the chore of doing pelvic floor exercises on your own!
9. Prevent a heart attack
Lots of studies have found that regular sex can ward off heart attacks, not bring them on as it was once feared.
One
study at Queen’s University Belfast found that having sex three times a
week could halve your risk of having a heart attack or stroke.
Another
study in Israel found that women who had two orgasms a week were up to
30% less likely to have heart disease than those who did not enjoy sex
or didn’t have an orgasm.
10. Increase your attractiveness to others
High sexual activity makes the body release more pheromones, chemicals that enhance your appeal to the opposite sex.
This is why the more sex you have with your partner, the stronger your desire will be to have sex with them again.
11. Smooth out your wrinkles
The
hormone oestrogen is pumped out during sex, which can in turn have a
plumping effect on the skin, helping to smooth out those fine lines.
This
is especially useful following the menopause, when a woman’s skin can
become drier and more wrinkled, as oestrogen levels naturally drop.
One
American study found that menopausal women who had sex every week had
oestrogen levels that were twice as high as their counterparts who
abstained.
12. Give yourself an all-over healthy glow
According
to research carried out at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, sex promotes
skin renewal because it is an aerobic form of exercise.
The
scientist behind this study found that vigorous sex pumps higher levels
of oxygen around the body, increasing the flow of blood and nutrients to
the skin, and pushes newer, fresher skin cells to the surface, making
skin look healthier.
13. Improve your self-esteem
One
of the most important benefits, noted in a recent survey undertaken by
the University of Texas, US, was that participants who had sex regularly
felt more confident about their bodies.
14. Lower your blood pressure
A
Scottish study found men and women who had plenty of sex coped well
with stress and had lower blood pressure than those who abstained.
Researchers at Brigham Young University in the US also linked frequent
intercourse to lower blood pressure.
15. Banish depression
Like any
exercise that raises your heart rate, sex causes your brain to release
feel-good chemicals that boost your levels of serotonin – the happy
hormone – to lift your mood.
Serotonin is the body’s key
antidepressant chemical and one of the major reasons people smile and
feel happy and relaxed after sex.
Sexually active women in
long-term relationships are also less likely to feel depressed than
women who go without sex, according to a study of nearly 300 women by
psychologist Gordon Gallup in the American Archives Of Sexual Behavior.
16. Cure that headache (yes, really!)
“Having
a headache” might be an age-old excuse not to have sex, but the
scientific evidence says that, to the contrary, sex can help shift pain!
This
is because making love causes a surge in the “love” hormone oxytocin,
plus other feel-good endorphins, which can ease pain.
Women have reported that their pain from both headaches and arthritis improved post-coitus.
17. Slash stress
In
a study in the Psychology journal, researchers found that people who’d
had sex in the last 24 hours coped better with stressful scenarios –
such as public speaking – than those who had not.
Research has
also shown that touching and cuddling during and after sex reduces the
body’s levels of cortisol – the hormone that is secreted when you’re
stressed.
18. Kick your insomnia into touch
The oxytocin released when you orgasm has another benefit – it can help you drop off, research claims.
Both
men and women release this feel-good hormone just before orgasm, and
as it courses through your system, it promotes relaxation and
sleepiness.
So there is actually a genuine excuse for him to fall asleep so quickly after sex...
19. Strengthen your bones
As
regular sex can boost oestrogen levels in post-menopausal women, it can
offer some protection against the bone-thinning condition osteoporosis
that is triggered by a lack of oestrogen.
And men can benefit
too, as testosterone levels have been found to increase during and after
sex, which can provide some protection against male osteoporosis.
20. Cut your risk of prostate cancer
Researchers
at Nottingham University have found that men who enjoy a regular sex
life in their 50s are at lower risk of developing prostate cancer.
This is because sex clears the prostate of toxins that could otherwise linger and trigger cancerous changes.
The
link was first suggested after several studies showed that monks
appeared to have a higher chance of developing prostate cancer.
21. Feel better all day
If
you decide to go for a spot of morning passion to start your day, the
boost to your mood it provides can continue right through until
night-time, according to research.
The American scientist Dr
Debby Herbenick found that adults who made love first thing in the
morning were not only more upbeat for the rest of the day, but they also
benefited from a stronger immune system than those people who simply
opted for a cup of tea and some toast before heading out of the door.
In other words – why wait until tonight?